The
Tao Of Dating
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"Chapter
1 of The Tao of Sexual Mastery: The Driving Principles"
Now
that you have been through The Tao of Dating course, you have
a much better sense of who you are and what you want. You
know how to find desirable women, how to meet them, how to
attract them and how to perpetuate a relationship with them.
It is now time to dicuss sexual mastery. Besides being a tremendously
worthwhile life skill in its own right, sexual mastery can
also be a great source of your masculine power. The best source
of confidence is competence. Knowing beyond a shadow of a
doubt that you can create an extraordinary sensual and sexual
experience for a woman gives you the kind of power that no
one can take away. Once you have it, it is there forever.
A wise man once said that when a hungry man asks you for food,
you can either give him a fish or teach him how to fish. The
former takes care of his need for a day; the latter takes
care of it for a lifetime. Most sex guides talk about specific
techniques, which are nice but more like giving you a single
fish. I have gone through dozens of these books and extracted
from them their principles -- the key ideas behind the techniques.
Our focus here will be on these principles, which have been
true for the past hundred thousand years and will be true
for the next hundred thousand. Once you know the principles,
you can apply your initiative and significant creativity to
them to create your own techniques (and maybe write your own
book someday). To get you started, we talk about at least
one technique to illustrate each principle.
The
Tension-Release Principle
Pleasure is the release of certain neurotransmitters.
The more of them you release at once, the better it feels.
So if you create a massive buildup of neurotransmitters and
release them all at once, that can feel really good. Think
of it the way a dam works: you let the water build up behind
it, and then when you let the floodgates open, whoosh, you
get this incredibly powerful burst of water, much more intense
than just the trickle of the stream. Here are two ways of
applying this principle:
Teasing.
Massage the body parts around the erogenous zones...
Resting
strokes. When stimulating your partner, alternate
stimulating strokes with resting strokes...
The Find-and-Persist Principle
A lot of guys like to vary their stroke, do a whole bunch
of things in a short space of time, thinking that they're
providing variety or demonstrating versatility. Don't do that...
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